02 February 2007 ++
A question was thrown at me of how I define an ideal friend.
I was stuck for a moment but confidently replied that..
He/She is there for me when I am in need
I enjoy his/her presence under all circumstances
I need little explanation for him/her to understand my intention.
So what came to my mind was..
Does that ideal friend even exists?
What qualifies a friend anyway?
A few days ago, I made a special trip down to New Urban Male to get a pair of sandals for a friend.
i gleefully showed Sa my quest but was asked why did i buy a footwear since it is unauspicious.
I was quick to justify that because his slippers were already worn out.
Sa commended me for my thoughtful gesture and for a moment I was pleased with myself, till i reflect the whole process.
Well, actually that gift was sort of my last resort.
I tried searching for the perfect bday present but frankly I had no clue what to get.
So I gathered information solely from our previous meeting.
I pondered then, how is it possible that he is a friend I treasure and yet I know so little about him?
(This also applies to a handful of my so-called friends)
And I figured it is my ignorance and pride.
Like how I refuse to initiate a meet-up or drop a message to show that I actually care.
Overwhelmed with guilt and regrets now is a little late cos he is flying off.
Hence, treasure every moment with those you truly care as you'll never know what the future holds.
I guess as long as I do care for you, you are my friend.
But it takes much more to be a good friend.
Are you a good friend? If not, do something about it. 11:37 PM